How many partners? Am I bad?

[SethCohen]

Originally Posted by DSTRen13

Well, then I think we can all agree that the original poster wouldn't want to date you as much as (if not more than) you wouldn't want to date her. Everyone has their own standards ... you need to remember that while you might think others are ridiculous, many of us may find you even more so.

I grew up with a strong faith and love of Christ, and I'm specifically saving myself for marriage. Now, I have wanted to date and have dated other girls who aren't virgins, but I've made the decision a long time ago and am going to stick with it. I doubt that many people would think I am ridiculous

[Scandia]

Seth- I do not think you are ridiculous in any way. On the contrary, I admire your inner strength that has allowed you to keep your values.

And it is so easy for me to keep track when my number is a big fat ZERO as well.

[DSTRen13]

Originally Posted by SethCohen

I grew up with a strong faith and love of Christ, and I'm specifically saving myself for marriage. Now, I have wanted to date and have dated other girls who aren't virgins, but I've made the decision a long time ago and am going to stick with it. I doubt that many people would think I am ridiculous

I don't have any problem with you and your decision. If you want to save yourself for marriage, that's fine and that's what works for you. (Many people, however, do find that ridiculous, that's just a fact. I have friends on both sides of that fence.) I just feel that you came off as rude and arrogant saying that her number was "ridiculous."

[SethCohen]

I don't feel as if there were enough posts from people who think 30 partners is a huge amount. My usage of the word ridiculous was necessary to express my view on how many people that is. Anyways, when I was a freshman in college I had my first kiss and a few weeks afterwards I asked the girl how many guys she had kissed and came to find out it was 14. I definitely was not ready for that number, and learned to only ask if you are ready to hear the answer. For me, I need to know about a girl's past experience before things get serious. There's no use in wasting my time and being hurt down the road.

Rock on scandia!!!

[macallan25]

Most guys I know would consider any girl who has screwed 30 or more guys to pretty much be a whore. (That is if she is 21 or around the same age as us.....you mayber older.)

[Scandia]

Now a guy who has had sex with more than 30 girls- would you consider him to be a skank as well?

Note- I do NOT consider the terms "stud", "playboy", and "gigolo" to be positive in any way. I think promiscuity is a very bad thing for people of both genders.

[TucsonADPi]

Thank you for the replies everyone. Well he and I have been getting into huge arguments about this issue. I keep telling him that the past is the past, but he has a major problem with it. I guess it didn't help when I told him that my number was actually 38 and there has been more than one partner at a time on multiple occasions. He knows that some of my chapter sisters have a higher number than I, and he has even slept with a few of them in the past, so I don't see what his problem is. Ugh. Anyways, I did go to a pretty big school, and we had some wild parties. But I was single in college, and I was single in high school and I have NO regrets about anything. Except for ever having this conversation with him. And as for my age, I am 21. I don't know why you guys care so much about it though. Honeychile, thank you for the PM. And KdAngel, thank you for the kind words.

[BBelleADPi]

TUCSON ADPI=IMPOSTER, as is the "Honeychile" yall have so BRAVELY and INVISIBLY created (now THERE's an oxymoron for ya). And yes, all the ADPis on both boards know who you are, so shoot, that kinda takes all the anger out of it for us. All we can do is shake our heads and laugh at your small life. (Actually, in PMs to each other, it has caused quite a bit of laughter on our parts as we "imagine" the lives yall have, so I guess I stand corrected!)

Cute thread, though. I especially like the "Alpha Delta Pi" bit, REALLY big the way yall did it. OOOh, there's someone saying they're an ADPi and this person seems to be a real slut. OOOh, we ADPis are SO scared!! OOOh, I bet we'll never get a pledge again-on ANY campus-ANYWHERE!!! OOOh, this thread and imposter have RUINED us!!! OOOH!! We're skeered!!!

Thanks for playing, though.

Get a life. There are REAL things happening in the world-oh, I forgot, you don't have one. Only the pathetic one you conjure up sitting in front of your computer INCOGNITO. Easy to be brave and slander people INCOGNITO.

But, excuse me. Back to the slut thread that I KNOW "Tucson ADPi" will insist continue. And, of course, "Tucson ADPi", feel free to PM me, not post, all your info and I'll be glad to check it out on our official board.

All I can ask is that everyone else not continue to feed the animals.