How many partners? Am I bad?

[itsme]

Originally Posted by TucsonADPi

Earlier this afternoon the topic of “how many past sexual partners have you had” came up between my boyfriend and me. When he told me 7, I thought he was joking and laughed out loud. When I realized he was serious, I didn't want to tell him my number. He pressed for it anyways and when he found out I was in the 30's he looked at me weird. I'm not bad right? What happened in the past is exactly that, the past. We all went to college; we know what that is like. Please help me guys.

Quick question. . . . . How old are you????

[swivel1963]

Originally Posted by itsme

Quick question. . . . . How old are you????

22




just playing

[Peaches-n-Cream]

Originally Posted by DeltAlum

I'm sorry. I know this is a cheap shot, but please take it in the fun manner in which it intended.

But...

Where were you women when I was in college?

They hadn't even been born yet, lol.

This is never a good conversation topic so I suggest you avoid it entirely.

[Agdee]

If someone asked me this question (after two marriages and two kids), I'd tell him that obviously, if I'd sleep with him, I'd sleep with anybody.

Then again, I'm cynical that way!

[bobbythedon]

What a freakin whore. Yo baby girl, gimme yo numba...and I'll call!!!!

Infact, hook me up with the rest of ur adpi sistuhz if they are anything like you. you better not be fat though

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Scandia

As well as with someone who thinks he can have premarital sex because he's male, but expects his bride to be a virgin and requires it.

Around these parts, we call those guys "idiots."

Anyone who still espouses that sort of double standard is someone you shouldn't waste your time talking to for 3 minutes, let alone dating and definitely not marrying.

Now if he's remained a virgin too, that's all good.

Oh, and small number of partners doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't know what he's doing - especially if he was with the same girl for a long time and they had to find ways to spice things up.

[AOIIBrandi]

Originally Posted by shinerbock

Thirty sounds high coming from a girl to me. That being said, I don't think its unrealistic, its just that no sorority girl around here would ever claim that many.

Just because they wouldn't claim it doesn't mean that the number isn't there. I knew a lot of sorority girls that were closet nymphos (for lack of a better term), but no one would have suspected.

Tuscon ADPi, I am in no way passing judgement on you and no one really needs to worry about the number but you. If you find yourself in this situation again I advise lie and say 5. If he asks the question he doesn't really need to know the answer anyway. The truth no matter how few or many will always make a boy crazy and jealous.

[bichonl]

I'm going to be 27 in July and I've had 41.

Don't worry about it.

My last serious BF was fine with my #, which at the time was only 36.

[AlphaFrog]

I don't know how you keep track of that many?? Keep a list?? Notches on your bedpost?? If I had to figure out how many guys I've dated (DATED, not slept with), it would take me weeks, and I bet it's under 15. My slept with # is pretty low, but I married young. Meh.

ETA: I'm not saying that if I were a bit older and still single, that I wouldn't be up higher in the numbers, I just don't think I would know what my exact # was.

[Pessimist Null]

what the hell is wrong with me?


seriously, this thread makes me suicidal