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TucsonADPi · #1 06-09-2006, 11:21 PM

Earlier this afternoon the topic of “how many past sexual partners have you had” came up between my boyfriend and me. When he told me 7, I thought he was joking and laughed out loud. When I realized he was serious, I didn't want to tell him my number. He pressed for it anyways and when he found out I was in the 30's he looked at me weird. I'm not bad right? What happened in the past is exactly that, the past. We all went to college; we know what that is like.

Please help me guys.

honeychile · #2 06-09-2006, 11:22 PM

Tucson ADPi, please check your PMs!

KLPDaisy · #3 06-09-2006, 11:24 PM

Did you see the Will & Grace episode when Grace and Nathan talk about that for the first time? This makes me think of that.

SoCalGirl · #4 06-10-2006, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy

Did you see the Will & Grace episode when Grace and Nathan talk about that for the first time? This makes me think of that.

I was thinking about the episode the other night! I was trying to figure out if it "worse" to have slept with a lot of people very few times or a few people a ton of times. I couldn't make up my mind.

TucsonADPi~ tell your man as long as ya'll are committed to each other it doesn't matter how many people you've been with.

Elite · #5 06-10-2006, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by honeychile

Tucson ADPi, please check your PMs!

Tucson ADPi,
Please let us know if Honeychile gave you a sisterly rebuke via private message!

valkyrie · #6 06-10-2006, 12:27 PM

For reals, I can't even imagine why anybody would care about someone's number. I'd be creeped out by a guy with a very, very low one, but other than that, wouldn't care. If a guy ever wanted to get all judgmental about mine, I'd know that it's because his insecure, inexperienced self couldn't handle it, and I probably wouldn't waste my time with him anyway.

highflyerlaura · #7 06-10-2006, 01:10 PM

For me the number is zero, solely because I just haven't felt the need for that sort of relationship so far. If something comes along, great, if not though, it doesn't bother me too much. I've got more important things on my list to worry about, and I'm happy just having a absolutely fantastic lot of friends.

WhiteDaisy128 · #8 06-10-2006, 01:31 PM

To me, 30 is a crazy-lot (but 7 is a lot to me too - maybe I'm just young, naive, and inexperienced). I'm not judging one's experiences or whether it's good or bad. I would want to make sure that all of those experiences were safe ones...the more partners...the larger chance of exposure to STDs, etc. I think keeping it on one hand is the way I plan to go.