How many partners? Am I bad?

[itsme]

Originally Posted by TucsonADPi

Earlier this afternoon the topic of “how many past sexual partners have you had” came up between my boyfriend and me. When he told me 7, I thought he was joking and laughed out loud. When I realized he was serious, I didn't want to tell him my number. He pressed for it anyways and when he found out I was in the 30's he looked at me weird. I'm not bad right? What happened in the past is exactly that, the past. We all went to college; we know what that is like. Please help me guys.

Quick question. . . . . How old are you????

[swivel1963]

Originally Posted by itsme

Quick question. . . . . How old are you????

22




just playing

[bichonl]

I'm going to be 27 in July and I've had 41.

Don't worry about it.

My last serious BF was fine with my #, which at the time was only 36.

[AlphaFrog]

I don't know how you keep track of that many?? Keep a list?? Notches on your bedpost?? If I had to figure out how many guys I've dated (DATED, not slept with), it would take me weeks, and I bet it's under 15. My slept with # is pretty low, but I married young. Meh.

ETA: I'm not saying that if I were a bit older and still single, that I wouldn't be up higher in the numbers, I just don't think I would know what my exact # was.

[Pessimist Null]

what the hell is wrong with me?


seriously, this thread makes me suicidal

[pinkiebell1001]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

I don't know how you keep track of that many?? Keep a list?? Notches on your bedpost?? If I had to figure out how many guys I've dated (DATED, not slept with), it would take me weeks, and I bet it's under 15. My slept with # is pretty low, but I married young. Meh.

ETA: I'm not saying that if I were a bit older and still single, that I wouldn't be up higher in the numbers, I just don't think I would know what my exact # was.

See, I'm, like you! I've slept with a good amount of guys (under 15), but it's really hard to keep track of! I could probably sit down and list them, but I'm like "uhhhh...." and I skip over a few of them, lol. Dating? Impossible.

[knightgal]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

I don't know how you keep track of that many?? Keep a list?? Notches on your bedpost?? If I had to figure out how many guys I've dated (DATED, not slept with), it would take me weeks, and I bet it's under 15. My slept with # is pretty low, but I married young. Meh.

ETA: I'm not saying that if I were a bit older and still single, that I wouldn't be up higher in the numbers, I just don't think I would know what my exact # was.

Yup, I don't understand how anyone could remember all that...
I had to think for awhile about last year (would take way longer to remember before that)...since the beginning of '05 til now, it's only 6 for me.

[mulattogyrl]

I wouldn't worry about it. I know my number but I'm not telling.

[SethCohen]

I'm at 0 and absolutely proud that I've survived 5 years of college. And yeah, I expect my girlfriend, and future wife, to also be a virgin. I'd consider anything above one to be too much, 30 is absolutely ridiculous.

[DSTRen13]

Originally Posted by SethCohen

I'm at 0 and absolutely proud that I've survived 5 years of college. And yeah, I expect my girlfriend, and future wife, to also be a virgin. I'd consider anything above one to be too much, 30 is absolutely ridiculous.

Well, then I think we can all agree that the original poster wouldn't want to date you as much as (if not more than) you wouldn't want to date her. Everyone has their own standards ... you need to remember that while you might think others are ridiculous, many of us may find you even more so.