Valkyrie- I would not be creeped out in the least bit. On the contrary, I would be proud of him. Sure sure, there could be a not so healthy explanation. But I am willing to give a person the benefit of the doubt. And if there were a majorly problematic reason, it would have manifested itself in other ways.
HFLaura- Yay! That is a great attitude to have.
Totallycommitted- I hate double standards very much. All of them- not just this one. And as you said, they hurt men as much as they hurt women. I know someone who did sleep around during a problem period- and the person deeply regrets it and it majorly hurt psychologically even though there were no concrete consequences (no STDs or unwanted pregnancies).
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