I am dreading the day that I have to have this conversation.
Not on my side, because I do not make a secret of the fact that I'm in the same boat as JocelynC.
But on the other person's side.
I honestly do not know what would bother me more- a promiscuous period that you regret, or multiple intercourse times in many relationships (as compared to one or two) that were healthy but simply did not work out.
I would feel very uncomfortable with someone who is significantly more experienced than I am. As well as with someone who thinks he can have premarital sex because he's male, but expects his bride to be a virgin and requires it (as compared to someone who simply does not care about his wife's experience level). And of course- I do not want someone who will think less of me because of my lack of experience, which is simply by my choice.
Hopefully I will find someone who shares my morals in theory and in practice.
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